Sunday, September 02, 2012

Jubah Muslimah?

clothes ; exposed or covered up?

(pic taken at surau office : please ignore the stain on that mirror, wokeh ;P) 

i used to experienced both. 
exposed in the contacts of me, 
is just wearing tights, jeans, kinda fit long sleeves & so forth. 
my feelings during wearing all that, were just okay. 
Because that types of clothes are pretty acceptable by our society, isnt it? 
i mean, lots of us are wearing such clothes. 
Not being too exposed, n not really cover up. right? =)

but in the actually, i do feel a bit uncomfortable whenever i walk passed thru some men, 
i can sense that their eyes were watching at me, (oke ni bukan perasan, ni betul2 bukan cubaan)
lagi2 at the part of aurat yg uncovered well, 
for eg : if im wearing jeans, bole yakin ke para laki tak memandang yang tak sepatutnya?  
even if i walk next to my fiance, some (outsiders) were still watching inappropriately atau dalam kate mudah, ushar2. 
serious tak selesa babe. Entahnye pon. yg pasti, memang tak selesa dipandang sebegitu rupa.

thus, alternatively..
i tried jubah, for it'll cover my whole body entirely.. inshaAllah.

Alhamdulillah, dengan jubah ni.. rasa secure sangat2, tersangat.
even ada mata yg staring pun, at least kita tahu kita telah ditutup sempurna kan? =')
so the case would be obviously different. 
Masyarakat pun respect, para lelaki bila nak ushar yg tak patut akan rasa segan, lalu tundukkan pandangan.. 
lagi2 time mr.fiance masih berada di perantauan (India),
nak2 jalan shopping bagai semua pun kena sensorang. tsk tsk~ 

Ecewah, padahal da tunang pun bukan lesen nak dating berdua suka hati tau, 
ingat sape orang ketiga? #selfRemider    #NoteToosSelf =) 
btw, tak semestinnya kena Jubah all the time. 
baju kurung, kebaya longgar, jubah seluar atau kain guni pun bole as long as u confident that it can cover your aurat as total =)

but thing is,
Jubah nowadays are not really cheap maa..
mostly pun rm100 n above je. 
Cuma kena pandai cari, baru dapat less than rm100. hehe

Jadi, camtu je la cternye..
benda ni pun, nak belaja2.. bukan la kate drastically, tak tak tak....
kang bila silap sket, ade la plak orang yg tak sabar2 nak 'smash'. hehe.. tau sangat.. =P

speaking of smash2 ni kan,
why dont you, us.. together we unite to the path of truth?
i mean, back to basic..
what are we living for? Jannah right? 
" Allahumma inna nas'aluka ridhaka wal-Jannah"  which means
Oh Allah! we ask You for Your Pleasure and Paradise.."
so why must one's keep busy looking for another one's mistake?
itu namo eh nak membuka aib tak sudah2 atau lebih teruk (yg kompem masuk neraka) memfitnah!  
Huh, bahaya2. Naudzubillahi min dzalik =')

in fact, what should we do is.. keep supporting the one who's trying to berhijrah.
a.k.a muhajirah azra' (gadis yg berhijrah).. 
sama-sama dapat pahala hidayah Allah, 
sama-sama dapat pahala usaha atas dakwah biarpun ia kecil, 
namun bermakna di mata Allah..
indah bukan? =')

in a nutshell,
marilah kita sama2 motivate balik.. 
keep recheck,
what's our purpose of living in this world?
kita hidup, bukan setakat nak stadi, makan, masuk U, keje, kawen, dapat anak, mati..
eh takat tu je ke? Alangkah ruginya kalau kita hidup takat itu saja ~ 
have to always bear this in mind.. that~ 
we aren't robot,
we are HIS servants, HIS slaves..
thus, let's act like one. yosh! 

semoga datang niat untuk berhijrah, 
semoga diperbaharui nikmat iman dan menjadi indah..
dan semoga mendapat nikmat istiqomah ilallah =') aminn ya Allah  

*p/s : sila maafkan kata2 saya yg agak rojak berkuah ni, al-maklumlah.. karangan BM tak penah dapat A, cikgu pun cakap saya tulis karangan, bukan jadi karangan, tp jadi bahasa pasar seni pagi chow kit. kiki. 



    (pale version, amacam.. scary tak? hehe)